During a discussion with a fellow chicken keeper that I have been mentoring and may have been responsible for getting started in the world of chickens, it was brought up that I should write about how chicken keeping brings people together and creates friendships between people that may not have met otherwise. It really got me thinking about how many people I have shared our obsession with and influenced their decision to get chickens. Chickens really do bring people together from all different walks of life, I belong to many groups of different varieties but when it comes to my groups about farming and chicken keeping there really is nothing like it. The best way to explain it is in terms of being a duck, like I said previously when ducks meet other ducks there is a ducky conversation that takes place, “you’re a duck, I’m a duck, now we are friends” and often times when meeting other chicken keepers a similar conversation takes place, “You have chickens? So do I! Oh, we must be friends now!” Chickens and all other farm animals truly bring people together.
There are a few people who really stand out to me and all for totally different reasons.
After posting on a moms group looking for information on chickens, I responded to Amy’s plea for information and simply offered to show her and her husband my set up and what we had going on. They came over and I gave them the basic run down of what we did to get started, showed them our coop and some of the things I would have done differently. We talked about where she could get chicks from and I gave her a local breeders info. After a hour or so of talking about everything I could think of, I could see the excitement Amy had and knew it wouldnt be long before she was a convert. It wasn’t long at all, she messaged me within a couple hours with photos of 4 auto sexing chicks(boys and girls look different at hatch to tell them apart) as she was on her way to the local feed store for supplies. I knew then this was someone I was going to be life long friends with and since we have become great friends. Everyone I have met has also taught me a little something too. Amy taught me that auto sexing chicks can be wrong also, as made evident by her rooster Stan who hatched out looking like a female not a male. As a matter of fact for weeks as she kept sending me photos of him saying, “Are you sure she isn’t a he?” and my response was always “but she’s an auto sexing chicken, she looked just like your other pullet, so she has to be a she” but I was so wrong!! Its a really good thing Stan is such a sweetheart because there is a serious bond between the two of them.
I consider myself to be a little socially awkward, I have no problem talking to people in forums or via messaging but when it comes to meeting people I don’t always give off a great first impression so I don’t meet as many people face to face as I would like to. I knew of this local mom, diy genius, gardener and chicken keeper Julie who I really wanted to meet, and sometimes I wonder if maybe I used my chickens to facilitate our meeting. In July 2014 I bought a Silkie hen and her 7 chicks she had just hatched, they were on my bucket list for chicken breeds I really wanted. I knew I couldn’t keep them all so I started looking for families who wanted to adopt the extras. In walks Julie and she really wanted to come see the little fluffy babies. I was so excited because I was going to get to finally meet this amazing person that I truly admired and also because I knew how cool it would be to send some babies with her so I could still see them grow up. Of course she wanted to bring home 2 of the babies because Silkies are sweet little fuzzballs who are soft and so personable. They were her first Silkies so I got to teach her a little something about them and in return I’ve gotten to have this great friend who has all the answers when I need help with gardening and diy ideas. I also got to learn a very valuable lesson about the strength of some chicken family bonds. Julie took home the 2 sisters, she raised them and loved them and eventually they went broody (wanted to hatch chicks). They both went broody at the same time even. Julie contacted me about giving them some eggs because she wanted to let them hatch some babies and she wanted the experience for her family. So of course I gave her 6 eggs for her silkies. It was a pretty exciting process to go through with her. Once the chicks hatched we saw the hens co brood the chicks together. They literally shared the responsibilities of raising the little babies. This was not something I had heard of before so after watching those little hens co parent their babies, when my own silkies went broody at the same time, I naturally gave them eggs to hatch together and I was able to experience it first hand myself.
Another family that really stood out to me is Angela’s family and her son Quinn. She contacted me to get some advice because Quinn had asked to get some baby chicks. I invited them over to talk about chicken keeping and to see if it was something they could easily do. Quinn was a big surprise to me, he was full of questions and had a huge interest in learning. I wasn’t expecting him to have such well thought out questions, but it was clear that he really wanted chickens and wanted to be a good chicken keeper. After answering what must have been a hundred questions, he was ready for baby chicks. Since I had fertile eggs, it was easy to let them pick out some breeds and to stick them eggs under a broody hen for them. I don’t know that Angela and I would have ever met if it hadn’t been for chickens and I’m glad that we did because not only are Angela and Quinn pretty cool people but I have been able to teach them all about chickens from the very beginning of the process, the laying of the egg. Quinn was able to watch videos of the baby chicks growing inside the eggs and get updates of the chicks all the way up to hatch, he was able to pick the chicks he wanted for his flock (did I mention that he picked 3 hens out of 10-2 day old chicks, those are some good picking skills) and after taking them home he took care of them and raised them to point of lay. Those are some valuable skills for a kid and he was learning all along the way. When I recently went for a visit and to show them how to clip wings it was clear that Quinn was a natural chicken keeper as he easily picked his girls up properly and brought them over for their wing clipping. I’m really proud of Quinn and thankful that Angela has let me be a part of their experience.
I have met so many people during my chicken keeping life, many of them I’ve become friends with. Its been great creating new chicken enthusiasts, introducing rare breeds, and teaching kids all about the cycle of life with chickens. Occasionally I get an update that a rooster I rehomed became a dad or a hen hatched out her own babies, or babies I hatched laid their first egg, and its really exciting when I get those updates.
Chickens opened up a whole new world of friendship for me, who knows maybe you have a crazy chicken person in you too!
Thanks for reading!